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FEATURE ARTICLE

October 2004

May You Live All the Days of Your Life
By Ron Elsdon


"May you live all the days of you life," said Jonathan Swift. How often we wish that for our clients, for those close to us and for ourselves, and yet how hard this can sometimes seem in today’s organizational world.

We worked together for almost a year, my client, a vice president in financial services, and I. We will call her Karen. It began when Karen sensed problems with her current organization, which was recently acquired by a regional competitor. Her extensive experience and knowledge of the industry meant little in the political mayhem that followed the acquisition. It was no surprise when she lost her job about two months after we met. There followed a time of introspection, some self-recrimination, and some depression.

We explored Karen’s aspirations in depth and she began to realize that a new life could come out of this loss. This new life could offer Karen the expression of her natural gifts in her work, the opportunity to join an organization that matched her values and relocation to a place that she and her husband desired. In short, it could provide alignment of who she was with how she worked and lived. Or as Brewi and Brennan (Mid-Life Psychological and Spiritual Perspectives, 1989) describe it, "the spirit within us, found in the core of our own Selves . . . slowly and painfully weaves its way through anxiety, confusion, tension and conflict to hear the rhythm of our own personal tune made up of choices and values that are truly our own. This becomes our great contribution to the world."

So with growing elation and some anxiety, over the following months, Karen gradually developed a finely tuned sense of who she was and where she could best express this. It was no surprise when she identified an organization that valued her innovative and slightly irreverent style. It was in the location she wanted and it needed her knowledge and expertise. So they came together, Karen and the organization, and they crafted a path forward that was better for both of them – one that was fulfilling for Karen and that generated value for the organization. They crafted a path forward based on mutual affiliation.

Now, what is unusual about this story? Certainly not her job loss. In the 1980s, 90s and 2000s downsizing has been a corporate mantra. Nor was it the roller coaster of emotions that Karen felt as time passed. These are natural responses to this traumatic event. The unusual aspect is the extent to which Karen was able to completely redefine her life and find alignment where there was little previously. Part of this alignment was affiliation with an organization, a community, which shared her values. Part of it was a rebalancing of her life to meet her spiritual, psychological and practical needs. This was a transforming experience, which led to a fundamental re-expression of her humanity. And for the organization that was fortunate to employ her? Here we see the seeds of transformation due to the infusion of her new ideas expressed through her engagement and commitment.

This illustrates principles that guide the choices made by individuals for themselves and for their organizations. As Izzo and Withers indicate (Values Shift, 2000), "when 1,000 working adults were asked whether they would rather earn high salaries or earn ‘enough’ doing work that makes the world a better place, 86% chose the latter." Selling (out) to the highest bidder was not acceptable. Izzo and Withers also quote David Packard, the co-founder of Hewlett-Packard, as saying "I think people assume, wrongly, that a company exists solely to make money. Money is an important part of a company’s existence, if the company is any good. But a result is not a cause. We have to go deeper and find the real reason for our being. . . . [A] group of people get together and exist as an institution that we call a company, so that they are able to accomplish something collectively that they could not accomplish separately – they make a contribution to society." So it is not just about money for the organization either.

Put another way, how can we avoid an ethical lobotomy in establishing an organizational perspective? Lynn Rhodes, from the Pacific School of Religion in Berkeley, California, poses three questions that get to the heart of the individual, organizational and community issues. These questions challenge us to consider fundamental values in wrestling with the tensions inherent in the relationships between individuals, organizations and communities. The questions are as follows:

  • How do we as a community honor work that sustains and supports our lives?
  • How do we support each person in expressing the unique gifts they have to offer?
  • How do we integrate meeting our individual aspirations with seeking the common good?

Acknowledging and responding to such questions will ask much of us as career counselors, and of our clients. We will need courage to:

  • Honor values that ennoble others and build strength and affiliation in organizations and communities.
  • Support organizations in meeting the diverse needs of each segment of their workforce.
  • Look beyond today to the needs of tomorrow so that the legacies left by our organizations and communities are legacies for generations to come.
  • Know and respect the various constituencies that are part of the extended organizational and community families.
  • Balance equitably the needs of these constituencies, knowing that in so doing some will find fault.


As career counselors we have an opportunity to be advocates for a new, brave organizational world in which each person is respected, in which partnerships are built and in which local and global communities are strengthened. And that voice needs to be heard.

Much of this article is extracted from Affiliation in the Workplace: Value Creation in the New Organization (Praeger, 2003) by Ron Elsdon, a book describing approaches to integrate the needs of the individual with the needs of the organization for the benefit of both.

Ron Elsdon, Ph.D. (Elsdon Organizational Renewal, www.elsdon.com) specializes in the career and workforce development fields, providing individual coaching and career counseling, organizational consulting, public speaking, publishing and lecturing. Ron has more than 25 years of leadership experience at diverse organizations in a broad range of sectors. His areas of responsibility have included career counseling and coaching, human resource consulting, workforce development, general management for portfolios of growing businesses and management of business development, marketing and research and development. Ron has been an adjunct faculty member at several universities. He holds a Ph.D. in Chemical Engineering from the University of Cambridge, a Master’s degree in Career Development from John F. Kennedy University, and a first class honors degree in Chemical Engineering from Leeds University.